Upright Meaning:
If you pull the Queen of Pentacles upright for home and family, you’re really doing great and not only creating a great home life but balancing it with a demanding career. You manage to cook dinner, tidy up, kiss everyone goodnight and be the breadwinner! Wow!
Because of your financial stability, you’re able to give loans and make sure that everyone is taken care of. But who takes care of you? Don’t be afraid to ask for what you need, whether it’s a break, a hug, or a night out. The Queen of Pentacles excels at taking care of others, not herself. The next step in growth is asking for help.
This could also be pointing to someone in your life right now, not necessarily you. Do you have a partner or a family member, maybe a roommate, who takes care of everyone but not themselves?
Could you do something kind for them to make their life a little easier this week? The gesture doesn’t need to be about money, as the Queen of Pentacles has plenty of it. The gesture should be about doing a chore, cooking dinner, making sure the house is clean for them to come home to. No matter how small it feels, it will go a long way!
Reversed Meaning:
If the Queen of Pentacles is reversed in your home and family reading, it means you are taking care of yourself but not the people around you. Do you have the money you’re setting aside, hiding from your family? Do you feel that’s deserved? Do you think you could spare some money to help your family, partner, or friends make ends meet this month? Try to stop and think about where you could be less frugal and help your family out.
This queen reversed in home and family could mean you are either too focused on home to excel at work or just the opposite. Do you need to draw boundaries with your family so you can get back to the demands of your job? If you do, you will be rewarded at work for it! Similarly, if your work is all-consuming, where can you draw boundaries there to be more helpful at home? Whatever you’re doing now is not working; the Queen of Pentacles is calling you out on it.