Upright Meaning:
While the Swords suit represents the mind, the effects signified by it are often related to the heart. It does not necessarily mean that your relationship is going to end in heartbreak, but it does point out that something is at stake here. Your partner’s words may be hurting you, and it is time to create some boundaries around how you expect to be treated in the relationship.
You could be having trouble trusting your partner because of things that have happened in the past – often, the Three of Swords can indicate a partner stepping out on the relationship. When two people come together, sometimes the thing that they create is discord.
If you are single, past heartbreak or trauma, and the inability or unwillingness to do any healing work is most likely hindering you from moving on and meeting someone new. If you are feeling reticent, just remember that the card would not appear if you weren’t ready to heal.
Reversed Meaning:
In a love-specific reading, Three of Swords showing up reversed can point to an issue with internalizing your partner’s behaviors or words. Attachment issues may be surfacing, causing you to see an ulterior motive in your partner’s every move. You could be paranoid that they are cheating on you or that they are going to leave you when really these negative thoughts are coming up because that is where your mind is.
Examine the deeper internal processes that may be coming up for you right now, rather than placing blame on your partner’s actions or showcasing a feeling of betrayal and heartache. If you are single, you could be feeling sorry for yourself because of a past partner’s actions or internalizing rejection as a sign that you are unlovable or will never have a relationship. Just know that these feelings will pass. Remember this: “their rejection is your protection.”