Upright Meaning:
When reading about family, the Four of Cups upright is an indication that you are somewhat disconnected from your family unit because you are focusing so much on yourself and what is going on in your own life. There may be support and love on offer, but you cannot accept it just now.
Reversed Meaning:
When the Four of Cups turns up reversed in a family reading, you are going through a period where you may have been isolated and are now fully welcomed back into the fold. You are likely feeling very grateful for your family and experiencing a lot of love for your family unit at this time.