Upright Meaning:
In a love reading, the Four of Pentacles shows that you are holding on too tightly to a partner. You could be overly possessive or jealous. You or your partner could also be holding on to past grudges or issues within the relationship, which is causing resentment.
When this comes up, it is time to work through these issues, either by discussing and letting go or by ending the relationship. If you are single, you could be holding on to a past relationship or issues pertaining to past relationships, leaving you closed off from future romantic partners.
Reversed Meaning:
When the Four of Pentacles comes up reversed in a love reading, you are ready to let go of fear and resentments in your relationship and approach things with your partner from a more open perspective. It can also indicate that it is time to leave behind a toxic relationship.
If you are single, this card in reverse indicates that you are ready to let go of the fear of being in a relationship or an ex you haven’t been able to get over, and ready to meet new people or start something new. This is generally a positive placement in a Love spread.