Upright Meaning:
When Four of Wands appears upright in a love reading, it’s surely a cause for celebration for you are getting married! If the reader is not inclined towards marriage as a legal union, then Four of Wands foretells of building a happy home together (there are more ways to be partners for life than just getting married).
Four of Wands can also be an omen of Handfasting, starting a life together or family. Going to someone else’s wedding is also a very big possibility with the Four of Wands. Attending a celebration with a fiery atmosphere is almost a certainty once the Four of Wands gets out in a reading.
Since Four of Wands represents reunions, love from your past might emerge and an old flame might flicker between you.
It’s a good indicator of changed fortune and things turning out for the better when this card foretells of a reunion. There’s more chance for a happier ending than with any other card when it comes to past loves emerging.
Reversed Meaning:
When it shows up reversed it can mean moving out of your home due to marital separation, shattered family harmony and lost peace. It’s not an overly negative card, but it can represent some unpleasant events that are followed by heated arguments and emotions running high.
It can also represent reunion with a past lover turning even more sour this time around; it’s definitely a good indication of giving up on time or leaving dead things to rest. This card can mean that the reunion that you were hoping for will be cancelled or postponed.
Four of Wands reversed is also a good indicator that you need to work on your self-image and confidence. You might be overly pessimistic or suffering from an inferiority complex, and that is not a good look on you. So, this is a message for you to work on yourself and improve your confidence in order to be able to see your good qualities and charms.