Upright Meaning:
When the Tower appears upright in a love reading, it normally isn’t a good sign. If you are in a relationship, the Tower signifies a truth coming into light and revelation changing the nature of the partnership.
The Tower can often suggest that a breakup is imminent. This is because of the realization that the relationship is not built on strong foundations, and the person you are dating is not actually the person you think they are.
Of course, this needs to happen in order for you to be happy, however, right now it will be painful. The truth hurts and things will be pretty chaotic for you. However, soon you will realize that you are better off without this person.
If you are single, the Tower appearing in a love reading suggests that a big change in how you regard love is on the horizon. Old views on romance and love are challenged with a significant shift in your attitude towards love.
This change might feel weird at first, but it is a necessity for growth. The way you perceived love and relationships previously were not doing you any favors and therefore to improve your happiness and peace, this attitude shift is needed.
Reversed Meaning:
When reversed, the Tower card suggests a resistance within you. In regards to love, this may be a resistance to facing issues in your relationship and romantic life.
If you have a partner, the reversed Tower is telling you that problems are on the horizon. In order to get through them, you need to open your eyes to the truth.
Your relationship isn’t perfect, no relationship is! But, sometimes you like to believe yours is and shut your eyes to any problems that may be occurring. But, this is not helpful in the growth and stability of your relationship. You must deal with issues that you and your partner are facing and not run away from them.
If you are single, a reversed Tower is telling you to open your heart to the change you have in regards to love. An epiphany and a shift in beliefs are on the horizon and you must accept this and throw yourself into your new way of loving.